Running is supposed to be a solo sport—but somehow, everyone else has opinions about it. The moment someone hears you’re a runner, they light up like they’ve just discovered a new species. “Oh, you run?!” they ask, as if you’ve casually mentioned that you juggle flaming swords on weekends.
And then the unsolicited comments start. Some are clueless, some are vaguely insulting, and some are just bizarre.
So, in honor of all the runners out there politely smiling through it, here are 15 of the most annoying things people say—and what we really wish we could say back.
1. “Running is bad for your knees”
Ah yes, the universal truth passed down from a neighbor’s chiropractor’s cousin who once jogged for a week in 1998. The truth? Decades of research shows that regular running—especially at recreational levels—does not destroy knees. In fact, runners are less likely to develop osteoarthritis than non-runners.
But please, go on about how a couple miles on the trail are more dangerous than a lifetime of sitting in an office chair.
2. “How far is your marathon?”
Every runner has heard this one. It’s a weird mix of innocent curiosity and sheer lack of Google. A marathon is always 26.2 miles or 42.2 km. Always. It’s not a vibe, a general distance, or a synonym for “any long run.” A 5K is not a mini-marathon. There are rules, people.
3. “Did you win?”
Honestly, sometimes just finishing is winning. If by “win” you mean finished the race without puking in public, remembered to turn off the GPS, and got a banana at the finish line—then yes, gold medal, baby.
4. “Wait, you paid to run?”
Yep. Paid to wake up at 5:00 a.m., fight for parking, stand in a long porta-potty line, and voluntarily suffer for a T-shirt and a medal shaped like a pineapple. It’s called fun.
Try it sometime. Or don’t. We’ll be over here high-fiving strangers and eating post-race bagels.
5. “Running is so boring”
Boring? We’ve hallucinated during long runs. We’ve argued with inner demons over pace. We’ve solved family drama by mile 9. You want boring? Try the elliptical.
6. “I tried running once. Hated it.”
Great, and we tried talking to you once. Didn’t love it either.
7. “You must be able to eat whatever you want!”
Let’s clear this up. Running does burn calories. But it also makes you obsessed with fueling, protein timing, electrolytes, glycogen storage, and whether that gas station near mile 18 has bananas. We don’t just “eat whatever”—we plan snacks like logistics officers.
8. “You don’t look like a runner”
This one never hits the way people think it does. Runners don’t have one look. We’re short, tall, thick-thighed, wiry, muscular, curvy, gangly, broad-shouldered, baby deer–legged, and everything in between. If you run—you’re a runner. Full stop.
9. “I’d run, but I don’t have time”
Let’s be honest. You had time for 45 minutes of doomscrolling and an episode of Selling Sunset. What you don’t have is the will to set your alarm early, drag yourself out into the cold, and sweat before breakfast. Which is totally valid! Just… don’t pretend it’s a time issue.
10. “You know you can just take a car, right?”
True. But does the car give you a runner’s high? Improved VO₂ max? Chafing in places you didn’t know existed? No? Then we’re sticking with our feet, thanks.
11. “You run every day?”
Nope. Rest days are sacred. But we do spend rest days planning our next run, talking about our last run, or standing in our kitchen staring at our shoes. So, kind of.
12. “You must have so much free time”
This one is usually delivered with a mix of judgment and disbelief. Like, how dare you carve out 60 minutes to take care of your body and brain? Truth is, runners are the kings and queens of time management. We run because we’re busy—not the other way around.
13. “What are you running from?”
Mostly stress. Occasionally geese. Sometimes our feelings. But hey, better than running toward an existential crisis, right?
Related: 4 Reasons Why You Should Run When Stressed
14. “Do you actually enjoy it?”
Depends. Mile 2? Pure bliss. Mile 17? That’s a spiritual crisis. The finish line? Transcendence. And somewhere in between, yes, actual joy. Runners don’t just love running. We love who we are because of running.
15. “Running is a cult”
Look, if waking up early, wearing tech fabric, chanting “easy pace” while doing the opposite, and spending Saturday nights meal-prepping carbs makes us a cult…
Well. At least we’ve got great merch and a solid sense of community.
Related: 20 Reasons Why Runners Are the Worst People to Travel With
Most people mean well. And sure, it can get repetitive. So next time someone drops one of these eye-rolling classics, just smile, nod, and go do what you do best: run it off. The run is always worth it—even if the conversation wasn’t.
